If you are unsuccessful at updating your phone via NSU, as it does require a stable and decent internet connection speed as you have stated, then explore other options such as updating at a friend or other family member's house on their computer. If you are still not having any success, then visit your local Nokia Care Centre and get them to update your phone to the latest firmware available.
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